Somedays I wish I could go into an hour long or heck, even a day long time out to just sit all by myself and not be forced to answer a question, wipe a dirty butt or refill an empty sippy cup.
Please tell me I’m not a horrible mother for thinking this way.
Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore my children and they mean the world to me. Really, they do. Everything I do, I do with those three little people in mind. For the past almost eight years, I’ve devoted everything that I am to being a good mommy, to making sure I’m doing everything that I can to make sure my family is taken care of in every single way.
But somewhere along the way, I’ve lost me — the easy going, carefree Crystal that I once was and I’ve got to find a way to get me back.
That’s why I think a mommy time out would come in handy. I know that Mother’s Day is only a few months away and I think I’m going to tell the hubby that a spa voucher is on the top of my list this year. I’ve never been to one, but I did get my mom a voucher a few years back. I think it’s time for some mommy time outs aka pamper weekends.
So, tell me. Do you need a mommy time out?
Karen B. says
Yes, some days I desperately need a Mommy Time-Out too! You’re definitely not a bad mother for feeling that way.
Janessa says
My peace times of the day are either getting up before the kids do and enjoying a peaceful cup of coffee or that hour after they go to bed where I can actually watch something I want to watch on TV rather than kiddie shows. 🙂 Even if hubs plays with them for a bit so I can take a peaceful hot shower, it’s heaven. We all need little breaks for sanity’s sake.
Tenille says
Absolutely – we’re only human and we all need to recharge!
Rachel -- Following In My Shoes says
I am always and forever in need of a time-out.
The End.
Pedey @ Do You Smell That says
Completely agree! And, to me, a time out doesn’t count if it’s you, alone, where your thoughts are not focused on something NOT related to the home. Because, really, even escaping to grocery shop alone, what are you thinking about? HOME! Even in the shower, what are you thinking about? The to-do list for the day. If my thoughts are not forced away from my job as Mom/Wife/CEO of the home, it just doesn’t count in my book!! LOL
Theresa @ Faith And Family Reviews says
I actually just had a mommy time out…sort of. My two older girls, baby and I went away for the weekend. It was great. It was quiet. I got to work one day of the three we were gone, so they were on their own, independent and free too. We loved it and enjoyed our time together as well as apart.
Nichol says
Oh you are not a bad mom for thinking this! We are moms, very busy, and deserve a break. You have to take time for yourself,so do it!
Christi says
Not a bad mom at ALL! I think every mom needs a little time to herself for sanity’s sake! For the past several years I’ve asked for a massage and pedicure for birthdays/Christmas, because I’d much rather have some time to relax than an item!
Nolie says
If you are a bad mom than I am a horrible mom. I take a mommy time out every day when Tobei gets home from work. Also once a week a girlfriend and I got out for coffee for approx. 2 hours. You need the time outs. We are people too.
Pam says
I think if you get a break now and again, you are actually a better mom in the long run! Our March break is the week after next and grandma just called and said she is picking up all three kids for three days…whatever will I do??!
Dawn says
You absolutely need and deserve a time out. Putting yourself first every once in a while is needed to recharge and regroup.Never feel guilty about it.
Shannon says
Of course! It makes us better moms to have them. Had a date with hubby last night and it was so nice to be amongst all adults fo ra few hours. Love my kids to bits but we all need refreshers.
Tee says
Don’t feel guilty! What your going through is natural! Moms wear so many hats and we get lost in the shuffle. You’ll find you again… Can you go for a quiet alone walk or have a girl’s night out? I try to reconnect with friends every month/every other month. They were such a part of my pre-baby life and I just don’t the time to hang like I used to. You sound like a great mom! Talk to your husband and make some time for you. Everyone will benefit from it.
Stefani says
I have been wanting some time to myself lately too. I can’t even take a shower with an interruption most of the time.
eve lester says
I could use one too! LOL You are not alone!
Shawn Ann @ Shawn Ann's World says
You’re not alone! I feel that way often.
Kasandria says
Nope your not alone! I’m in desperate need of a Mommy Time Out. We’ve all been sick and I’m still sick and behind on everything. Looking forward to vacation coming up.
Kas
Louise says
You deserve a time out. We all do, I find that I need one again, even though I count LA as one. I just need a break more often than I get, kids 24/7 7 days a week is hard very hard work!
Sara@MommaFindings says
That’s it Crystal. THAT. IS. IT.
I am SOOO coming over this weekend. Seriously. We can go to a movie. We can go grab coffee or just dinner. Or hang out and talk, but seriously… I wrote this exact post like a year ago and I feel you. We need time for US. It’s not that we don’t love these sweet children, but I vowed to be the fun loving gal I used to be by taking time for myself (why do you think I go to the gym all the time? Because that’s the ONLY place I can get away from the kids!!)
Jenn says
YES, i do need a time out! I try and get out on my own at least twice a month!
hairstyles for girls says
You’re not a bad mom! Everyone needs a timeout once in awhile. I hope you get a break soon. 🙂
Lorie Shewbridge says
You are SO not a bad mommy… my boys are grown up, but I have the 6 puppies and I am still wiping buts, cleaning up toys and poopie, giving baths, and all that stuff. Now with being sick, I could use the same things as you, a spa day or a pamper weekend.
I am so looking forward to the Disney Social Media Moms conference – I just REALLY wish you were going to be there!!!
Henria O. says
Sometimes I starve for just a couple of hours alone with NO voices! LOL!
Mia says
Yes, this mommy really needs a timeout-NAP!!!
Jena Hartman says
When I read this headline – I smiled and tears came to my eyes. It seems like day in and day out as “mommies” we’re never suppose to slow down or really ever get tired. I tried explaining that to Jaevin – our three year old yesterday and he goes, “come on mommy.” I just smiled. But it’s SO true, sometime if we gave ourselves a “time out” we’d be more refreshed and re-energized to be prepared and ready for the next obstacle thrown at us. Please, please – GIVE ME A TIME OUT! (lol) – JMH