This is a partnered post with Oral-B. All thoughts, opinions and experiences are my own.
I’ll be honest and admit that I was not an easy child growing up (although I hear I was a great baby)! I guess you could call me a rebel of sorts. I did things my way, or at least I tried to. I didn’t do good with authority. Authority got in the way of me doing what I wanted. I was a teenager. I knew what was best for me. {insert eye roll here}
Looking back, I see how difficult of a child I was. I didn’t like rules and I just wanted to live life. To do the things all the other children my age were doing. But my parents were strict and very protective over me so I rarely got to do what everyone else was doing.
I hated it.
I hated feeling secluded.
I hated feeling like I was an outsider looking in.
I hated feeling like I was missing out.
Why couldn’t they just let me have fun and be a child.
Why did they keep me within arms reach at all times.
They tried for as long as they could and then they let me spiral out of control which eventually led me to an unsuccessful marriage and the worst two years of my life.
My dad has always been an instrumental part of my life. He worked hard to provide for his family. We always had a shelter over our head, clothes on our back and food in our belly. He was the ultimate example of hard work and dedication. He instilled in me to always do the best I can, no matter how big or small the task. To always push myself to be the best me I can be. To follow my dreams, no matter how late in life it may be. My dad started his own business at the age of 50 and is doing exceptionally well just three years later. He has inspired me to live my dream and that hard work and dedication are key to success.
I didn’t realize until I had children of my own that parenting is hard work. There is no instruction book. There is no easy button. I was learning to be a good parent, long before I had children of my own, thanks to the love and patience of my own parents.
My dad is the ultimate example of a good father. He loved me even when I was unlovable, he forgave me even when I did the unforgivable, and he disciplined me to be who am I today. I will be forever grateful to my dad who never faltered, who always stood firm, and always directed me down the right path. I wouldn’t be who I am today without him.
Thank you, Dad!
This year Oral-B is celebrating and honoring dads for all the fun moments and smiles they’ve brought to the lives of their families. Although we should celebrate and honor our dads year round, Father’s Day is a great day to honor him by sharing with him all the ways he’s made you smile.
As I was watching the video, tears started welling up in my eyes. Just simple moments that have such a powerful impact on our lives. I can’t help but remember some of those same experiences with my dad and those same experiences are being made by my husband for our children. There is no denying just how much the power of dad can impact our lives.
So why don’t you join me this Father’s Day in sharing your special memories with your father on Twitter using the #powerofdad hashtag. Feel free to also like Oral-B on Facebook to stay up-to-date on all promotions.
How are you honoring your dad this Father’s Day?
Marcie W. says
Isn’t it amazing how your entire view on parenting changes once you have children of your own? Your dad sounds like an awesome man!
Tara says
I too can relate to no being the easiest of teens, however, the power of unconditional love is pretty amazing. I also think that the older I get the more I realize that there is a lot of truth in always being “Daddy’s Girl” 🙂 I will be following along to the #powerofdad hashtag.
Amanda says
I totally agree that we do not appreciate all that are parents do for us until we are older! Now that I have children I see things very differently!
Jen says
If only parenting came with said instruction book. It would make this whole thing easier, right? But it is remarkable how becoming a parent makes you realize how awesome your own parents were and how sometimes, they were actually right.
Samantha G. says
That video made me tear up… such sweet little moments that make life enjoyable. Thank you for sharing this 🙂
Liz @ A Nut in a Nutshell says
Look how strong you’ve become through it all! It’s no wonder you have such drive and determination (and stubbornness) now. Ha!
Jennifer @ The Quirky Momma says
I lost my dad in 2004, but I plan to lift a beer with salt on the rim in his honor!
Colleen says
You sound like my youngest son LOL! Parenting it is hard work and sometimes it takes that experience to appreciate our own parents.
HilLesha @To the Motherhood says
He sounds like a wonderful father! I honestly don’t really do much on Father’s Day (or Mother’s Day, for that matter) except give a call to wish my dad and step-dad a Happy Father’s Day. They really don’t get into the whole Father’s Day thing. 🙂
Tiff @ Babes and Kids says
I think parents only do what they think is best for us. I grew up in a very strict home and butted heads with my parents a lot but looking back, I am grateful they were so protective of me. It’s amazing how we view our parents once we are adults, isn’t it?
Stefanie says
I would never have placed you as a rebel 😉 It sounds like you have a great dad.
Robin Gagnon {Mom Foodie} says
Yeah, it isn’t until we have our own children that we see all the ulcers we gave our parents in their true light.
Shell Feis says
Your dad seems like a great guy! That’s so cool about his later in life business success!