Need a new do? Here are 5 tips to get glam mom hair.
This is a sponsored post with Lunchbox.
Making sure my kids are fed, safe, and happy — these things top my list of priorities. Unfortunately, my appearance keeps getting pushed farther down on the list. But, I’m just not ready to completely throw in the towel and let “mom hair” be my new norm.
What do you think of when you hear “mom hair“? I think of an lessened focus on previous personal style in exchange for ease.
I asked a few mamas in my life to send me a selfie, with no alterations to their hair. The result? A lot of gorgeous women who captioned their photos with comments about how long it’s been since they washed their hair, the rainy weather, and the length of the day.
Is this really how we feel about ourselves, mamas? A list of excuses for our appearance? Being a mom doesn’t have to mean you are sentenced to a lifetime of bad “mom hair.”
5 Tips to Get Mom Glam Hair:
Condition: Hydration is important for our entire body, from the tips of our toes to the ombre-dyed tips of our tresses. Choose a cleansing and conditioning routine that restores moisture to your hair, like Dove Daily Moisture Shampoo + Conditioner. If you’re like me, you’ll end up with an empty bottle of conditioner while your shampoo is almost brand new. I also use a leave in conditioner and do a deep conditioning treatment on occasion.
Take a Break from Heat Styling Products: If I straighten my hair, I know I’m committed to wearing it straight for a while. It takes almost two full weeks for my waves to return to normal after using heat styling products. So if I’m going to straighten my hair, I’m going to milk that hair style. I’m not ready to discard my blow dryer or curling iron yet, but giving my hair a break is greatly appreciated. If too much damage has been done, there’s hope at the hair’s cellular level with Dove Damage Therapy Intensive Repair Conditioner.
Accessorize: If you have a scrunchie, put it in the costume box and leave it there until you get invited to a 90’s party. How are the 90’s already retro? Aghh. Aside from the scrunchie, some great hair accessories can glam up your mom do. Try a great hat or cute clip.
Make an Emergency Kit: It normally isn’t until I look in the rearview mirror that I realize what a mess I am. In my glove compartment, I’ve got an emergency kit with rubber bands, bobby pins, an elastic headband, and a little lip gloss. I can fix myself up a little before walking into the pharmacy or husband’s work party…but not while driving, don’t fret!
Do Your Research: Before you do anything drastic, do your research. Make yourself a Pinterest board with hair inspiration. Flip through magazines and find women with similar face shapes. Bring in pictures or be able to describe in detail what you’re looking for when cutting your hair. Lastly, consider what different products you’ll require and how you’ll be able to style your hair.
If you’re looking for more tips, check out the series of videos by Dove, featuring blogger Jordan Reid at Walmart.com. You’ll learn how to restore and style your hair, and find out about a product that will keep your hair color lasting longer.
Being a mom means there are lots of priorities, but appearance doesn’t have to be completely removed from the list. Especially when you consider that you can have glam mom hair at a great price.
What is your best glam mom hair tip?
HilLesha says
I definitely have my fair share of mom hair days. ~lol~
Melanie says
I think we all do!
Mama to 5 BLessings says
Love Dove products, they make my hair nice and soft and smelling SO good!
Melanie says
I agree! And with the coupon they are even more affordable. Score!
Ashley M says
Heat can be so damaging to our hair! I have wildly curly hair but I like to wear it straight occassionally. If i straighten it too many days in a row it dries out quickly.
Melanie says
I’ve got the same problem. If I straighten mine at all, it takes forever for the curls to go back to normal.
Ellen Christian says
My hair definitely needs a little bit of attention. That’s my mission this weekend.
Melanie says
Hope you were successful. I definitely need to get myself to get a hair cut ASAP!
Penelope Guzman (NY Blogger) says
I’ve been working on my hair, trying to at least wash it more often (how sad is that?)
Melanie says
It’s not sad…just the truth! There are lots of basic things that just don’t get done.
Leandrea says
I love these Glam Hair tips. I am terrible at keeping up with my hair. I totally love the emergency kit idea. I am sure my girls will raid it and I will have to constantly keep it filled though!
Melanie says
Ha! I didn’t even think about that. I should have included a lock to keep your supplies safe. My girls still sit in the backseat so I can temporarily keep them out of my stuff.
Roechelle says
We realize how important great hair is when we are stuck in those less-than-glam moments. I feel like I have been un-glammed for quite some time now.
Melanie says
Time for a little me-time, it sounds like. Hope you get a chance to pamper yourself soon! I don’t realize until I look at pictures of myself how long it’s been. Eek!
Danielle says
If a hair stylist could come live with me I’d never have mom hair… but for the time being I’ll try these tips and see where they lead me 🙂
Melanie says
That would be lovely! Also a live-in manicurist, personal trainer, and stylist!
Amber Edwards says
Hydrating is so crucial! I had an experience where I forgot the proper hydration products after altering my hair. And it was a nightmare and MONTHS of repair products to get it back to normal. Never again. always hydrate!
Melanie says
Do you have a favorite product or tip for hydration?
Lena says
I need an emergency kit for sure – I hate my hair by lunch time almost every day
valmg @ Mom Knows It All says
I hate my hair. I usually get a perm once a year so I can like it for a while. I’m over due for that now.
Melanie says
Do you remember the I Love Lucy when she tried to give herself a perm & sew a dress? I’d be a hot mess if I tried!
Marina says
Honestly? Wash it regularly, comb it frequently and get rid of that scrunched up ponytail! 😉
Melanie says
Sometimes it’s the easy fixes that work best. 🙂
Anne - Mommy Has to Work says
air clips are a must for those days when your hair just isn’t working
Theresa @ Faith and Family Reviews says
My hair could use more regular trims to keep the ends looking more healthy.
Elizabeth Towns says
My best glam mom hair tip is to know your best natural hair do so you can go to it quickly. Like you, if I straighten my hair I have two weeks to milk that hairstyle and then I am back to curly ringlets. When my hair is in the natural curl state, I can twist it, pin it, and shape it. In the last year I’ve tried to learn my easiest natural hair styles so I can get them together in 10-15 minutes {which sometimes equals 5 minutes} and be presentable.
Melanie says
Thanks so much for sharing! You’re absolutely right. If I try to go against what my hair does naturally, I end up losing control of it part way through the day. It sounds like you’ve got it all figured out.
Crystal Green says
I’m stuck in the 90’s because I LOVE my scrunchies and I refuse to give them up. 🙂 However, I do like to accessorize with other items too, but not often. I don’t do much with my hair, but these are some really great tips.
Melanie says
Rock what works for ya!
Angela says
These are some great tips. I hair needs some glamming. Being at home so much, I don’t style it often.
Melanie says
Doesn’t always seem like it’s worth the effort if no one sees you, right? But I’ve got to try just so I feel human some days.
Shell Feis says
I totally have mom hair. It’s always in a ponytail & hasn’t been trimmed in 8 months, so it’s not pretty. I’m hoping as soon as this baby goes five minutes without needing to be held I can go in for a cut!
Melanie says
You’re not alone! I’m so excited about my baby being a little older so I can get out alone & get my hair done.
Colleen says
You can make a pony tail glam with a little effort, maybe some curls or a dome.
Melanie says
Absolutely! Just wrapping a little section of hair around the rubber band adds a little flair. Thanks for sharing!
Kathleen B says
Love the idea of an emergency kit, my hair is horrible if I am out and it gets wet.
Melanie says
Mine too…frizz city! Maybe throw a scarf in the emergency kit just in case.
Robin Gagnon {Mom Foodie} says
My hair is usually in a pony tail or a bun, but happens to be down today.
Vanessa: thequeenofswag says
These are great tips. I need to do these to get my hair looking glam.
Melanie says
I’m sure you are looking fabulous as we near the wedding. Soon, right?
Lucero @We Are Earthformed says
I hadn’t realized how much my “mom” look bothered my husband. I used to work full time and made myself up every day. Then I had kids and that “getting made up” was reduced to whenever we went out. There were days I never even got out of my pajamas. Sometimes that’s OK, but finally one day my hubby lost it and told me he found it depressing to find me in my pajamas because it looked like I’d given up. So, I’m focusing a little more on myself since my kids aren’t babies anymore.
Melanie says
I agree that it’s completely OK to have days where it isn’t a priority. I think the reason the term “mom hair” exists is because we become the backseat to whatever the needs of our children are. It’s good for us all to focus on ourselves a little too. I know that I need to take the time to do things for myself (even if it is put on a little mascara) to stay sane.
Raijean says
Yes, I love mom glam hair, so gorgeous!
Tammy says
Doing your research is a great tip. I don’t know how many times on a whim I’ve gone to the salon….and then cried all the way home, LOL!
Melanie says
Oh no! At least you held it together until you got to the car.
TerriAnn @ Cookies & Clogs says
Get a good haircut. If it’s cut well, you won’t have to do a lot to it or use a lot of product that might damage your hair.
Melanie says
Good advice!
Rachel @ Following In My Shoes says
Ha! I usually am sporting the mom pony-tail … it’s just so easssssssy. But, for Glam Mom Hair, I usually just play up my curls and add a pretty, decorative bobby pin or flower. Get a little retro-glam in!
Melanie says
A simple and classic ponytail can be great! I love the retro accessories. I’ll admit that sometimes I still my little girls’ bows too.
Kelsey Apley says
They all look great. I have straight long hair, my go-to is up in a pony! Or I am a half up hair kind of girl!
Marcie W. says
My solution to my mom hair was to chop it off and sport a style that was low maintenance, cute and funky all rolled into one. I absolutely love my hair now! Thanks so much for the awesome coupon too.
Melanie says
You don’t have to spend a ton! Sounds like you’ve got this whole mom glam hair thing figured out!